Author, Speaker & Social Media Strategist
These two comedians sufficiently explained it all back in 2007
Watch and learn
Beranys and Connie have to be laughing out loud at the recent news
I’ve lost all traces of where I found it.. so there’s a mystery here.. why as this in the “draft folder?”
I’m pretty sure I didn’t write or edit it… but it’s very profound and I don’t want to loose it.
The idea of pattern recognition one of the peculiar new
awarenesses of our time is the result of speed up. When things move
very quickly, their pattern or form of them appears very plainly
whereas when things move very slowly, it is not so easy to see a
pattern.
This so has something to do with a lot of the confusions of our world
and when people who had previously been quite content in a fixed
position, in a job, or a career, are suddenly confronted with very
fast-moving situations where they can see overall patterns, they
suddenly become very discontented with their place, with their fixed
position. So the dropout is a normal kind of response to pattern
recognition… not that I mean in all aspects of our society, the
people who were dropping out right, left, and center are people who
suddenly have seen a pattern in their lives instead of just a fixed
position; visually oriented, everything in its place, a place for
everything, a classification, a job.
If you come across the origion, please post a comment so I can give proper attribution.
“You have 2 ears and 1 mouth.. use them in that proportion”
Ross Goldberg wrote that “the only thing that matters in social media is the first word social.” He g
ive some good advice for being social.
I’ll add a bit by asking you — Do you like it when someone is “socializing you”
Yes, be sociable. Just don’t forget that Mom had the right ratio. If you really listen, and never force yourself on others, you’ll be liked more and get more done.
Dale Carnegie taught in “How to Win Friend and Influence People” that the key to being social was to listen. Instead of hitting people over the head with your socialness, he suggested listening. In one story, he related how he quietly listened to a man for over an hour, paying attention and offering nothing more than a nod and agreement at times.
Later, the man was heard to say that Dale was the best conversationalist he had ever met.
Translating this to online technologies… You can’t lurk (just read quietly). You have to do a nod from time to time. I suggest that you read blog posts and web sites with the idea that your acknowledgment and praise is the price you pay for reading.
Leaving a positive comment wherever appropriate is a great bargain. It let’s the writer know you appreciate his work, it let’s other readers know you are there and can build your reputation as someone who is up to date and expert on the subject.
Today I read Ross’s post and wanted and thought “good job my friend.” I’d usually post such a comment on his blog. Instead, I decided to tweet about it on Twitter so my followers could learn from Ross and write here to elaborate. I’ve placed a trackback (a link back the original post) to give some juice to the post.
When I link to Ross, people who read my post may hop over there, and the search engines all will follow the link and associate our posts for increase crediblity for both of us.
OK.. I’ve rambled a bit more than needed to say “good job Ross” .. I do hope you see that I was aiming to pass on some tricks of the trade.
Thanks for reading. Leave a comment or trackback so I know you’ve been here
I thought it was all just good clean fun.. till I saw this.. The ultimate reason we were being taught that song
While reading the history of mememtic theory, I found a link to a Mark Twain story.
If you have ever had a song stuck in your head, you’ll like his cure found in this post that includes the entire story.